Bullies Dog, No! A blog around the problem of bullying and how to deal with it.

Introduction

“Bullies dog, no!” is a catchphrase that I like to use as a reminder that someone is being bullied. It’s also a way of letting them know that you’re on their side, and it tells the bully that they’re not going to get away with being mean or spreading rumors. In this post, I’ll explain where bullies come from, how they learn to do what they do, and what we can do about it.

Bullies Dog, No!

Everyone has been bullied at one point or another. It’s a fact of life, and no matter how many times we tell ourselves that it doesn’t matter, it still hurts.

Bullies are often insecure people who have been bullied themselves—and they can be hard to deal with because they don’t understand how their behavior makes others feel.

A bully may not always be evil; he/she may simply need to be taught something about empathy, compassion and respect for others.

Where do bullies come from?

I believe that bullies come from a place of trauma. They can be people who were bullied themselves, people with low self-esteem, or those who have been rejected by their peers. Sometimes bullying comes from being abused by our parents or guardians as children.

When we have gone through some kind of trauma, it changes us and makes us angry. We become defensive and protective over our sense of self because we feel threatened by the world around us—so much so that we lash out at others to make ourselves feel better about ourselves again (or at least feel something). This behavior repeats itself over time until it becomes an unconscious habit: The child grows up into an adult bully who abuses others because he is scared to be alone with himself!

How do they learn?

It’s important to remember that bullies are a product of their environment. They learn from those around them and the media that surrounds them. This means that if you have a child who is being bullied, you can do something about it!

  • Teach your child about bullying. Tell them what is acceptable behavior and what isn’t. Make sure they know how to deal with a bully in school or on the playground so they don’t get into trouble themselves! It will also help your child learn how other people respond when they see an act of bullying happening around them (and hopefully encourage them to step in).
  • Talk openly with your kids about bullying, especially at home where there’s less pressure than at school or work environments where kids might be afraid of “making waves”. If you’re worried about what other parents think then join together with other parents who share similar values so each family can support one another through this process together; whether its participating in PTO activities such as class parties or bake sales; attending parent teacher conferences together (especially ones where bullying comes up); volunteering at community events like food pantry distributions – anything that helps get families involved as part of larger community efforts against bullying will go a long way towards reducing future instances by inspiring empathy among everyone involved including bystanders.”

Basically, they are all full of it.

The more you are able to help your friends, the more they will be there for you when times get tough. This may seem like an obvious statement, but it is often forgotten.

Bullying is a problem that has been around since time immemorial, and it seems unlikely that it will disappear anytime soon. However, as communities come together to combat this issue at all levels—from local schools to state governments—the chances of a bully finding their way into your life decreases.

We need to go after them with the same intensity.

In the same way that bullies bully, we must go after them with the same intensity. We must make sure that they understand that what they are doing is wrong. We need to tell them how it makes us feel and how their actions affect others in a negative way. However, if you find yourself becoming frustrated or angry while speaking with them, remember to take a step back and breathe deeply before proceeding. It’s important to remain calm when dealing with anyone who is being aggressive or intimidating towards you!

How can we stop them?

  • Don’t give them the attention they want. This might seem obvious, but bullies thrive on attention and the power that comes from feeling like they’re in control of a situation or a person. So if you know someone is being bullied, don’t give them any extra attention or sympathy—it will only encourage the bully to continue their behavior.
  • Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself/others in situations where bullying occurs and be ready for some backlash from the bully as well as others who support their actions (i.e., bystanders). If you see someone being bullied, don’t stand idly by while watching this happen—the more people who are willing to help out, even just by saying something supportive like “stop” or “that’s not okay,” will make it harder for bullies to keep acting aggressively toward their victim(s) without repercussions from bigger groups of people around them who won’t tolerate such behavior anymore!
  • Don’t be afraid of reporting anything suspicious activity happening online via things like Facebook groups where harassment occurs regularly; what seems small today may have larger consequences down-line into adulthood so reporting such incidents helps ensure safer communities later on when users become adults themselves.”

Whether it’s in person or on social media, we need to look out for each other and call them out when we see a bully at work.

A lot of people think that bullying is just something that happens in the schoolyard, and that once you’re out of school it goes away, but this isn’t true. Bullying can happen to anyone, anytime and anywhere. It’s a form of abuse and often involves someone who thinks they are superior to another person or group of people.

You can help stop bullying by speaking up about it when you see it happening around you. If someone is being bullied at work or on social media then report it to your manager or someone in authority as soon as possible! Don’t be afraid to say something; bullies thrive on silence and fear so they’ll keep doing what they’re doing unless you stand up for yourself and others like yourself!

If a friend seems upset after spending time with another friend (or even a stranger), ask them if everything was okay when they were together—even if nothing happened while they were together—it could help prevent any further incidents occurring later down the track too

Conclusion

We have to stop bullying. It doesn’t matter what the reason is, it’s unacceptable in any form and it needs to stop. We need to be an example for our kids and teach them that they don’t have to put up with this kind of behavior. There are so many good things going on in the world right now, but this is something that we can all work together on fixing as well!

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