Introduction

If you’re in a same-sex relationship and moving in together for the first time, you might be wondering how your dog will fit into your new life. I know we did! We were so excited to start the next chapter of our lives together that we didn’t think about how having a dog would change things. But it did! It was a huge adjustment at first, but now we’re used to living with our pup (and getting up early to walk her). Here are some tips that helped us adjust:

Talk to other same-sex couples who have dogs.

When you’re navigating the waters of being a same-sex couple with a dog, it’s helpful to have people who’ve been there and done that. They can give you advice on issues they faced in their own relationships, and might even be able to help you avoid those problems before they come up.

If you don’t know any other couples who have dogs, there are lots of groups online where people can talk about their experiences. One such group is the Lesbian Dog Owners Facebook page. In addition to general discussions about dogs and how they affect lesbian relationships, this group has also organized events like “Secret Admirer” where members send anonymous gifts back and forth between themselves.

Research a dog breed that will be compatible with your lifestyle.

• Research a dog breed that will be compatible with your lifestyle.
• Look for a dog that is compatible with your living space.
• Look for a dog that is compatible with your personality.
• Look for a dog that is compatible with your budget.

If you’re adopting, choose a dog that is already house broken.

• If you’re adopting, choose a dog that is already house broken.
• If you don’t know the dog’s history, you can’t know if it will be housebroken. Training an adult rescue dog takes time and patience.
• It is best to adopt an older dog. Older dogs are more likely to have been potty trained and are less likely to jump on furniture or chew your shoes when left alone at home.

Take your time and let the dog get to know you.

It is important for you to take the time to get to know your dog and for them to get used to your schedule. Dogs are creatures of habit, so they need time to adjust. Don’t force a dog into something they don’t want, such as eating or going outside. Let the puppy get used to their new home and family before expecting them do anything besides play with toys or sleep in their bed.

Give each other alone time with the dog.

You and your partner may not be as lucky, so it’s important to give each other alone time with the dog. You don’t want to feel like you have to compete for her attention, or that you have to do everything for her.

If this is an issue in your relationship, see if one of you can go out on a date by yourself while the other spends some quality time with their own best friend (that would be Fido). It might also help if one of you helps out with training and discipline while the other focuses on playtime.

A word of advice: Don’t be jealous of any extra attention your partner gives to their pooch because it’s not a competition! Just enjoy spending time together as a family unit and remember that even though dogs are great companions and excellent listeners—sometimes they just aren’t enough…

Moving in together is difficult enough without adding a new member to your family.

No matter what kind of dog you choose, he or she is going to be a lot of work. Even if your furry friend has the best temperament, there will be times when they need training and attention. You’re going to have to take them outside every few hours, clean up after them if they make a mess in the house, feed them and so on.

You may also need to consider moving expenses if you live in an apartment building that doesn’t allow pets. If this happens, it might be worth considering finding a new place where dogs are allowed before adopting one (or two). This will save time during the move itself and keep everyone happier during this stressful period of your life!

Conclusion

Moving in with someone can be a lot to handle, but it can be even more difficult when you add a dog into the mix. Luckily, there are ways to make it easier! If you’re considering getting a dog with your partner, make sure that both parties are prepared for what comes next. Take things slowly and give yourselves time to adjust before bringing home an adorable furry friend who will love both of you unconditionally for years and years to come (hopefully).